Right! This is it! Cards on the table time!
Pay attention now because this ad's a little different

Firstly, let me tell you about me: I’m a successful, self employed, businessman and entrepreneur.
I'm forty-one, though I feel younger.

I live just few miles outside of London, by the Estuary. With my cat. Who's gorgeous.
From my window you can see France and the Eiffel Tower. Or is Canvey Island Oil Refinery?
I’m never quite sure.

I’m tall (6’4”). Slim (just over 12st). And, when the weather’s not too bad, I go running to keep myself trim and bursting with energy.

I’ve short hair and I’ve blue, smiley eyes, which twinkle occasionally.

I’m a fun person with a good sense of humour. I enjoy cooking, comedy and culture, but my real passions are photography, writing and theatre.

I was widowed three years ago, and since then I’ve become a spiritual, polyamourous, live-life-in-the-moment, life-is-too-short, kinda guy. I’ve never been happier, than I am now.
My employees like me, my friends love me, my nephew and nieces think I'm cool!
I'm an unattached good guy - a rare commodity!

My days and weekends are always very busy. My evenings on the other hand, are a little dull and I miss the times when I used to come home to someone nice,
who with just a smile, and a kiss, would make the day disappear.
I'd like to feel that again with someone special.

What I really need, is a part-time girlfriend!
Someone I can see once a week. Or fortnight. Whatever works.
Someone who’d like to come over and, for a few hours, do the couple thing;
Turn up, go upstairs, throw all your clothes on the floor (as if you live here), then plod around for the rest of the evening in just your knickers, socks, and one of my jumpers.
We can share a meal, watch a movie together, eat ice-cream,
have a bath together and
snuggle up in bed.
Maybe I’ll read to you. Maybe we’ll just snuggle.
To me Intimacy is more important than sex (though I love sex).
And nudity more important than passion (though I'm plenty passionate).

You can be married, attached, single or separated. I don't mind. This world isn't perfect, we'd all do things differently if we could. I haven't the time to be judgemental.

I know most ladies prefer the man to make contact first, and I understand that.
But you've read this far so why don’t we just assume this is my first email to you, and now
I’m waiting for your reply.
Shall I cook tomorrow night,
or shall we order Chinese? ;-)

PS. Interesting replies consisting of more than a few words, along with a photo, guarantee my attention.

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