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Right. This is it. Cards on the table time. Age: 41
Pay attention now, because this ad’s a little different.
I’m looking for a part-time girlfriend / wife.
I’m a forty something self-employed entrepreneur living few miles outside of London, by the Estuary. With my cat.
From my window, across the water you can see France and the Eiffel Tower. Or is Canvey Island Oil Refinery? I’m never quite sure.
I’m quite tall (6’4”). Slim (just over 12st). And, when the weather’s not too bad, I go running to keep myself trim and bursting with energy.
I’ve very short hair and I’ve blue, smiley eyes, which twinkle occasionally.
I’m a fun person with a good sense of humour. I enjoy cooking, comedy and culture. My passions are photography, writing and theatre.
I was widowed three years ago, and since then I’ve become a spiritual, polyamourous, live-life-in-the-moment, life-is-too-short, kinda guy. I’ve never been happier, than I am now.
My days and weekends are always very busy. My evenings on the other hand need a little more sparkle; Every now and then I miss the days when I used to come home to someone nice, who’d make the day disappear.
I want a female friend.
Someone I can see once a week. Or fortnight.
Someone who will come over and, for a few hours, do the couple thing; the best parts anyway :-)
I’m looking for someone who’ll turn up straight from work, go upstairs, throw all her clothes on the floor (like she lives here), and plod around for the rest of the evening in just her knickers, socks, and one of my jumpers.
We’ll share a meal, watch a movie together, eat ice-cream, have a bath together and snuggle up in bed.
Maybe I’ll read to you. Maybe we’ll just snuggle.
Intimacy is more important than sex.
And nudity is much more important than passion.
You can be married, attached, single or separated. I don't mind. This world isn't perfect, we'd all do things differently if we could. I haven't the time to be judgemental.
I know most ladies prefer the man to make contact first, and I understand that. So why don’t we just assume this is my first email to you, and now
I’m waiting for your reply. Because I’d love to meet you. Shall I cook tomorrow night, or shall we order chinese? ;-)
PS. Interesting replies consisting of more than a few words, along with a full length photo, guarantee my attention.
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